The same mind shares both vistas, and for me, romantic and erotic attractions to both men and women are present together. Janus and I share aspects of a liminal nature.

I am happily married to a woman, but I suspect I could have had the same relationship with a man or perhaps a man and a woman.  I am out to my wife, and again happily, we share the same taste in men. Her attitude toward my little complication is less tolerant than celebratory.